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"If the dowry isn't to the groom and his family's liking, the bride can be beaten or even set on fire, usually by the husband."

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

"Men who take advantage of these young, unsuspecting girls are also ignorant of the damage they are bringing upon the future generation of their country."

Monday, September 4, 2006. Posted: 12:45pm CENT. 

Indian Women Set on Fire in the Name of Tradition

Ariel Feldman

Associate Managing Editor for Content

ariel@teenspeakonline.com

   For years, women all over the world have been denied their rights, looked down upon, and taken advantage of. Combine that with the discrimination against teenagers, and you’ve got yourself a true problem.  In America, we commonly see violent acts against teenage girls in situations of domestic violence or relationship abuse. The American government is doing all it can to stop the public from making young women targets, especially in recent years, providing shelters, doctors, and even entire hospital clinics around the nation. But in certain foreign countries, the government is doing little to none in terms of preventing their future wives and mothers from being taken advantage of. In India, women are being brutally beaten, forced into brothels, and even set on fire by their own husbands—and even worse, the women are as young as 12 years old.
    Indian tradition declares that men are more valuable; hence the desire of a baby girl is minimal to none in an Indian society. The reason for this philosophy is all based on an ancient tradition--a dowry. A dowry is the amount of money the bride's family pays to the groom in the event that their daughter gets married. The dowry doesn't only need to consist of money, it can also include livestock, technology items, and other miscellaneous objects that the groom may request of the bride's parents. If the dowry isn't to the groom and his family's liking, the bride can be beaten or even set on fire, usually by the husband. This practice is called “bride burning” and is the most severe case of dowry abuse. Government records of these situations are low because in most cases they are reported as accidents or suicides. As a result, millions of murdered teenage girls are uncounted in federal Indian documents because no one is truly speaking up for these young women encountering violence and humiliation on a daily basis.
    The discrimination of women in India is mostly based upon the fact that families, especially families in rural Indian towns, simply cannot afford paying a dowry when their daughter eventually marries. They would rather favor their money and lifestyle than their own daughter, causing many women to be forced into having an abortion. With ultrasound scanning devices just recently appearing on the Indian market, mothers can know whether they are carrying a boy or a girl while still in the womb. Advertisements for ultrasounds in India include catch phrases for saving money such as “Spend 600 rupees now and save 50,000 rupees later.”
    When young girls are carrying babies, their older “husbands” are usually the ones who decide whether to keep the baby or have an abortion. Despite this being a completely biased and unfair process of decision making, the woman can also be physically hurt or even die if the husband isn’t willing to get a real medical abortion and goes to the much frequented “Spiritual Doctor”, a common practice in rural India where money is scarce. This is a medical danger because not only is the abortion not preformed in a hospital or a properly equipped clinic, but also the devices used are outdated, harmful, and usually not sterile.
    Adding to this atrocious lack of respect towards Indian women are the men that entice or trick young girls into joining brothels, usually husbands or close relatives of the teenagers. Australia's Minister for Immigration and Multicultural Affairs, Senator Amanda Vanstone describes that the young girls “...have survived major trauma—some have been raped…and they are thrust unto an urban environment totally different from the mainly rural background they have come from.”
    Men who take advantage of these young, unsuspecting girls are also ignorant of the damage they are bringing upon the future generation of their country. For example, when a 12 year old girl from a rural village on the outskirts of Varanasi told someone she was raped, the village council repeatedly shot down her claim and wouldn’t believe her, instead saying that she made the “story” up. A neighbor, insisting he was offering to help her by getting her a job in the field of domestic work in the city of Kolkata, then took her to Dehli and sold her to a brothel for 10,000 rupees. This sad situation is one of many in the truly terrorizing world of teenage abuse in the land of India. In fact, statistics recorded in 2000 state that a woman is raped almost every hour in India, on average.
    India's Deputy Chair of the Rajya Sabha, Najma Heptullah, spoke at a Harvard seminar in 1998 about this growing problem, adding that the Indian parliament system is “…closed and male-dominated…” This explains a lot about the lack of progress made in this very serious situation, and the unserious attitude the parliament members have towards these atrocious acts of violence.
    So what is being done about the lack of rights and respect for the young women of India? Well for the most part, the effort has come in baby steps. Vanstone, a supporter of the UNHCR's Refugee Women's Protection Clinic in West Delhi, stated that in order to first help the teenage girls of India they must create shelters and ‘safe havens’, such as the ones provided in America, to “… get an idea of the full spectrum of the problems they face, and find out how we can get them better protection and find long term solutions” in order to get the job done.
 

Sources: IndianChild.com, UNHCR.org, Harvard University, IndianTogether.org

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